definitely jennifer

it's always like this

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Forensic evidence now links the 2009 Morgan Harrington disappearance/murder with missing UVA student Hannah Graham.

kimbaland:

Link to story here.

this is stomach turning if you’ve heard the details of Morgan’s remains and what they believed happened and how. it’s disturbing to think that Hannah, or anyone, may have suffered a similar fate.

on one hand it’s a little relieving to think that maybe it’s safer for girls around Charlottesville now that he’s off the streets but so depressing for Hannah and her family and who knows how many other girls as well.

Filed under wtf is wrong with some people

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why do they only fall asleep 10minutes before our 3:30hr drive is over?
guess i’m spending another game walking a cranky baby around a stadium

why do they only fall asleep 10minutes before our 3:30hr drive is over?
guess i’m spending another game walking a cranky baby around a stadium

Filed under go hokies! photo

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husband saw that I bought these cookies and said “I see you’re doing your white girl things” to which I informed him that they’re no longer called “white girl” they’re now called “basic bitch” at least that’s what i’ve learned on Tumblr this week
related: kinda pissed that they didn’t just add pumpkin spice but also added white chocolate. I was not looking forward to white chocolate. bummer.

husband saw that I bought these cookies and said “I see you’re doing your white girl things” to which I informed him that they’re no longer called “white girl” they’re now called “basic bitch
at least that’s what i’ve learned on Tumblr this week

related: kinda pissed that they didn’t just add pumpkin spice but also added white chocolate. I was not looking forward to white chocolate. bummer.

Filed under pumpkin everything season my OBX mug gives me life

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next steps?

so how do you get your money back from a small business these days?

I ordered a pair of shoes for Belly this summer and before I ever received a shipment notification saw them show up elsewhere for a lot cheaper. I contacted them to cancel the order before it ships but they said it already shipped but that I could return them after they arrived, just send back $5 with the shipment.

I assumed this was to cover the prepaid shipping label expense. except there was no return shipping label. I guess they’re trying to scam a $5 return convenience fee on top of you having to pay return charges? I dunno, I played dumb and said “I didn’t see a shipping label in there so can I just return it on my own dime and not include the $5 check?” they said fine. done.

so I shipped those out the other month. tracking shows that they arrived back to the company in early august. and still no refund.

I sent an email. no response.

I called last week, was told they’d get back to me that day with an answer. no response.

I’ve tried calling at various times almost every day this week and get an answering machine every time. nothing.

so… what can I do next? it’s a small retailer, not Etsy small but not Macy*s big.  I imagine they have under 50 employees. can I go back to my credit card company and have them reverse the charge? is there another business policing agency I can engage? 

I’ve never had a business (potentially) screw me like this and I honestly have no clue what to do. I’m even more pissed because I recommend this company all the time for squeaky shoes. I feel a little personally slighted but more than anything I want my $34.99 back.

Filed under not gonna call out names until they have definitely screwed me

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you know how when you’re invited to a party at someone’s house and you RSVP “yes! let me know if there’s anything I can do to help" but you don’t actually expect them to require anything of you?

yah, I was a little caught off guard when she actually responded “can you please bring some cookies?” 

Filed under i didn't actually want to bring something i was just trying to be polite my fault she hijacked my event anyway so i guess i'm a little more miffed than i normally would be

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someone has decided our studio at the gym needs an oil diffuser.

everything now reeks of lavender.

i HATE the smell of lavender.

but now my gym bag, studio shoes, clothes, hair, everything reeks of lavender.

wth? i work in a gym, not a massage parlor.

Filed under freakin lavender it stinks literally